As Benjamin Disraeli once said, "Talk. your hands in pockets, jingling change or keys, twisting your ring, gripping the lectern, licking your lips, adjusting your hair or clothing, fidgeting with a pen, bobbing your head, placing your arms. Talking about someone behind his back isn’t new. but it’s a fantastic way of aggravating your friends and followers. If an offender really wants to hammer home just how horrible he feels,…